I have been following the Becoming Minimalist blog by Joshua Becker, and everything he posts makes me shout, “Right on!”
Being in the Christmas season, I want to be enveloped in the important parts of this holiday – giving, togetherness, relaxation. I want to be able to focus on the hope, peace, joy and love of the advent season. However, in our consumerist society, it is easy to get caught up in being too busy, buying too much, attending too many events and stretching everyone too thin. I have been trying really hard to let go of the unimportant things and to give myself time to have peace.
I run the children’s programs at church and yesterday was the Christmas pageant. I worked hard to have everything ready ahead of time so that I could show up Sunday morning, have a great, stress-free play with the kids, and watch them enjoy their Christmas party afterward. I slept well the night before and I was not nervous at all for the morning. It was a great feeling.
Once at church, I noticed we were missing a key member of our volunteer team and upon further inspection, I found out that she was down with the flu and wouldn’t make it in. This could have thrown me for a major stress-out session, but I didn’t allow it to. Yes, she was going to pick up apples and candy canes on her way in. I am a huge stickler for offering healthy portions during the meals we feed the kids, but I thought, oh well! The kids will just have pizza and chips. One time won’t kill them – and let’s face it, they will not mind begin without apples one bit. No candy canes? That’s ok! We have beautiful cards to pass out to the congregation after the play ends. Who will be in charge of setting up the coffee hour and lunch for the kids? We have plenty of extra volunteers this morning.
Everything went fine. I was sad that our friend missed seeing the pageant, but I was glad that I stuck with my desire for the day, which was for it to be stress-free.
It was a lovely day. The kids were awesome! Everyone was fed. Clean up went quickly. The rest of the day at home was perfect and relaxing. Just what this season should bring!